Please don't forget

As a man I know I can improve so much as a father and a husband. I know how mean, disrespectful, and selfish I can be. Over the last few weeks I have seen who I am and who I want to be. I worry now that I will slip. I must keep focus and make new ways habit. Some people think people don't change. I don't like this. I think if you practice something enough it becomes habit and then normal. I must remember how selfish I can be. I must understand to be patient with my wife and kids. I must give my wife space, perfect trust, and love that fits her needs. I must take care of my household, be a leader for my family, and every now and then put my foot down when needed. I must communicate with my wife, listen carefully, and not try to fix her problems. I must be mysterious, fun, and not afraid to break out of my comfort zones. I must keep my short term and long term goals in mind daily. I must lead our family in our finances and share these decisions with my wife. Most of all we must celebrate our successes and remember our blessings.